“I am who I am… I am the best the way I am…I can achieve my goals.” This should be your slogan. Your daily reminder. Pat your back when you achieve your set goal, congratulate yourself, give yourself a treat, and appreciate your efforts.
The funny thing or probably the fantasy that we look for is appreciation and gratitude from a second and third party which often brings us disappointment. Keep in mind that, not everyone will see your success in the perspective you would have loved them to.
Yes, there will be those who will rejoice with you on each and every success story. Others will see to it just as a norm and sadly there will also be the ‘jealousy’ type. Make sure that you learn for each of them. It is a lesson that you should always pick. Each day is a learning day.
One thing I learned is; whenever you wish good for your fellow, then you reap goodness from it, your heart is always at ease and doors open up in directions you had least idea of.
The main aspect is that, do not associate your happiness with someone else’s gratitude. Be happy, be proud of your success, your failure, your strengths, and shortcomings. Only then, will you find your inner peace.
When someone tells you that whatever you are doing is worthless, prove them wrong. Bring out the worth in it, let it shine so brightly, and let them see that with your dedication, trust in The Almighty and self-belief, you could get your ambitions to greater heights and success keeps on following you step by step.
Do not be afraid of failure, how will your success story be interesting if you fought no battles and rejections on the way. As a writer, there are times when writer’s block takes control of you but when you decide to lift yourself from that comfort zone and try as much as you can to scribble down your thoughts, it’s much easier to overcome it. As an entrepreneur, there is will be times that your business thrives and moments when sales are low, all in all, let this not demoralize you. Maybe I can say, failure is a fundamental key factor to success, challenges are there to make you stronger and competitive, not to weaken your capabilities.
Learn from your weaknesses and pull your socks. Be proud of yourself.
Say it aloud “I am a Hero, My success story will change the world.”